Avoiding Pitfalls of a Red/Blue Leader at Work

I was facilitating Color Code workshops in a large organization that had tens of thousands of employees and around 3,000 leaders at various levels. This organization had well over 100 locations and depended on Location Leaders to be in charge of each of those locations.  Location Leaders had hundreds of employees under their purview. They were compensated well, and they carried a massive basket of expectations put upon them by the organization. 

The organization worked hard to build a pipeline of lower-level leaders to fill these ranks as spots opened up, and over time, a common thread appeared—the candidates often hired into the Location Leader roles were almost always Red/Blue. (For the purposes of this article, primary Red/secondary Blue will be treated the same as primary Blue/secondary Red). 

I was in a position that allowed me to observe the selection and development process up close. It became clear that what made the Red/Blue type attractive to the organization for the Location Leader role is that they wanted to take charge and be in charge of all aspects of the business.  These were massive locations, so that made sense. The Red/Blue knew how to inspire an understanding of the high-level vision and mission of the organization (Red trait), but they were also adept at breaking the work down into regimented systems and processes to ensure efficiency in production (a Blue trait).  They could quickly make far-reaching decisions, (a Red trait) but also take the time to analyze complicated business problems and find errors and problematic procedural weaknesses (Blue). They knew how to get things done fast, (Red) and they demanded accuracy and quality (Blue). These leaders wanted to be in charge of the direction the location went as a whole, (Red) and they wanted to be involved with all the little details (Blue). To the organization, the Red/Blue was an ideal steward—they were both visionary and detail-oriented, and they naturally wanted to drive both those efforts.

Many of the Red/Blue leaders found great success, but also, many did not. 

Of those who struggled, their expectations of their employees weren’t just high, they were unrealistic. With just a little bit of examination into the Red and Blue traits, we can see that a Red/Blue leader may inadvertently demand too much of their employees from conflicting objectives. For example, if an employee got the job done quickly, they might be criticized for missing important details, but if they got the job done with great detail and accuracy, they could be criticized for going too slow. Similar conflicting objectives often arose around the desire to follow policy, but be flexible to the employee’s individual circumstances, or possibly asking for quantity of production one day, then expecting quality of production the next.

The Red/Blue Location Leaders who were successful worked hard at self-awareness and learned how to avoid being unrealistic. They learned how to rely on both their Red and Blue strengths, while mitigating the weaknesses. They often spoke of having balance in their expectations and proactively reducing stress and tension in the workplace, as they knew they could often be the source of the stress. 

The two things that the most successful Red/Blue leaders did that made the biggest difference were: 1) They listened first, and they listened patiently (mitigates the Red limitation), and 2) They allowed others to have their own opinions without heavy criticism (mitigates the Blue limitation).

If you’re a Red/Blue type who is in a leadership role, learn from the teachings of Color Code; they can make or break you. Start with the two communication skills of listening openly and actively and giving others the freedom to express their feelings and beliefs without heavy-handed criticism. Then, focus on balance.  It’s ok to expect speed and accuracy, but mind the degree of expectation; keep it realistic and carefully increase your expectations over time.  Knowing when and how to adhere to policy and when to bend the rules is a difficult skill to master and should be mentored—seek out your mentor for this (and of course partner with HR on policy matters).  

Red/Blue leaders who choose to follow these strategies and the teachings of Color Code will find that the reaction they get from their employees and the production they get from their teams could reach break-through levels. Be a Red/Blue leader who diligently works toward self-awareness and balance.

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Derek Pangelinan is the owner of Derek Rey Consulting, a workplace-culture and leadership development company. He has been teaching Color Code for nine years and has taught teams in large and small organizations, for-profit and nonprofit, and has used it as a coaching tool. You can reach out to Derek at his business email address: Derek@DerekReyConsulting.com

 

Learning to Have a New Kind of Fun in the Pandemic

The pandemic has been hard on everyone, and we have all coped in different ways. The Reds have worked through their list of home projects, even though it was challenging at times to get supplies. The Blues turn off the news to avoid the constant barrage of suffering. (As a Blue, I couldn’t listen to the numbers going up, the quarantine extensions, etc.)  For the White personalities, this was an opportunity to embrace their natural tendencies. My White-personality son was happy taking his college courses online. He never left the house unless absolutely necessary. But for my 15-year-old daughter, a Yellow, things were really tough. 

In 2019, my daughter was a social butterfly.  On weekends, she would leave one friend’s home to go stay at another’s. Sometimes, she would be gone all weekend. She was an A and B student, loving the connections she made with her teachers. She enjoyed the perks of being a good student like extra trips to the vending machines or bathrooms.  She was heavily involved in softball and played travel softball as well as on her school team, which kept us running to practice or tournaments most nights and weekends. 

Her whole world changed in March of 2020.  In the matter of a few weeks, everything that was fun for her was gone.  School became virtual, with a hand-me-down Chromebook and teachers who had never used Zoom. The softball season was up in the air. “Keep doing drills at home,” her coach said, “We will be back in no time.” We live in the Northeast, so we were put on lockdown and became the epicenter of COVID-19 cases for months. That meant no social gatherings of any kind. 

Being a Color Code trainer for many years, I saw the writing on the wall.  This was bad for my Yellow daughter.  In her world, every bit of fun had been taken away.  The change was huge.  I watched my sparkling daughter become dark and withdrawn. She didn’t care about anything.  Yellows already struggle keeping themselves focused (squirrel), so she started sleeping until 2 p.m. and was up until 3 a.m.  Her room was a mess, and her grades started to suffer because she couldn’t structure herself. She couldn’t focus on what needed to get done and do it. 

I quickly realized I needed to create a new version of fun for her. Something, anything to make her smile. Quick trips to the Dollar Store to see if there were Hot Cheetos on the shelf became a huge event!  Dropping off groceries outside grandma’s house was noteworthy!  Calls we made to family were on FaceTime so we could interact in some way. 

She really missed her friends. I was determined to create some fun. With just a few clicks, an Amazon driver showed up with a box of assorted candy. I decided to make some special deliveries to her friends. It was a big deal for them. As soon as we’d pull in the driveway, her friend would come running out all excited. They’d run right up to the car window, because at that time we weren’t used to the 6 feet of separation yet. My daughter wouldn’t put the window down until they were at least 6 feet from the car (following the rules, that’s her Blue secondary). Once they were socially distanced, she’d toss her friend’s favorite candy out the window like it was a Halloween parade! They laughed and joked about how silly it all was. Occasionally, a mom would make an appearance, too (typically with a glass of wine in hand). They got to interact in person. It worked for a while.

But then it got boring, because, well…. Yellows get bored easily.  Those things that were fun get to be routine and then lose their luster. I needed to shake things up for her, so we started driving lessons.

My daughter has been driving riding mowers and golf carts for years. It felt like a natural progression, even though she is not of age quite yet. We just needed to add some fresh excitement into her quarantined world. We live in the country, and there was no one on the roads. I felt very safe when she was driving. So we started small drives around the backcountry roads. She loved it!  We jammed out to great tunes, checked in with the farm animals, and saw breathtaking sunsets along the way. In both cases, we had to create fun while making new memories!

My daughter is not the same person she was in 2019. Obviously, none of us are. I mourn the girl she used to be, but I have hope she will find her way back to a new sparkly version of herself.  This is a lesson for all of us: Embrace your Yellow no matter what it looks like!

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Mary Frances Mika is a Blue who has been facilitating Color Code classes for years. She has a degree in Psychology and has PHR, SHRM-CP, and CPTD certifications.  When she’s not training, Mary Frances connects with her White secondary self by gardening, bird watching, and reading.  She loves to see the impact the Color Code has on her participants.

How to optimize your Disney vacation according to your personality

It’s been more than a year since the Happiest Place on Earth closed its doors due to COVID-19 precautions, but at the end of this month, Disneyland will open its enchanted gates once again…for California residents. Those of us unlucky enough to live outside the Golden State only get to imagine the taste of Dole Whip, the smell of Pirates of the Caribbean (it’s a thing, I promise), and the beauty of the castle lit up after dark.  However, we will all be welcomed back to that happy place eventually, and when we are, we need to be prepared to optimize our vacation according to our personalities. The Reds will gear up to get the high score on Toy Story Midway Mania!, the Blues won’t forget to pack tissues in their fanny packs for when they see the Walt and Mickey statue again, the Yellows will set their alarms for the first time since their last Disney vacation and prepare to spend $100 on food alone, and the Whites will find that perfect spot in the shade to enjoy a churro-scented breeze and watch the Mark Twain glide across the water. Whether you’ve been to Disneyland 100 times or have never been before, read on to learn more about how each Color Code personality can enjoy Disneyland to its fullest. 

Yellows

“You’re dead if you aim only for kids. Adults are only kids grown up, anyway.” -Walt Disney

Giving Disney vacation advice to a Yellow feels like giving candy eating advice to a kid…Yellows were simply made for going to Disneyland. I remember going to Disneyland with my Yellow uncle as a kid. Without shame, he would belt out “Yo-ho, Yo-ho, a pirates’ life for me” alongside the animatronic Pirates of the Caribbean as we rode the ride. He’s always got some funny pose to strike right when the camera flashes on Splash Mountain, and he even hopes to go Disneyland by himself someday — he’s fun enough that he doesn’t need the company of others to be entertained. So although Yellows will have fun no matter what they do at Disneyland, I’m sure they’re always up for learning some tips to have even more fun. My advice? Instead of simply riding the rides, eating the food and browsing the shops (all good things), make Disneyland an even more interactive experience. Go on a photo scavenger hunt throughout the park, organize a flash mob, start a water fight and eat treats every hour on the hour. Just make sure whatever you are planning won’t get you kicked out of the park (don’t mind me, just a worried Blue over here.) 

Reds

“The way to get started is to quit talking and begin doing.” – Walt Disney

Reds, you are spending a pretty penny on this Disney trip, so go into it with an agenda. Forget about wasting your time in line for the spinning teacups if that’s not your jam or waiting for three hours for fireworks just to get a good spot (it’s you, you’ll get one anyway). Make a list of all the rides you want to go on and attractions you want to see ahead of time and spend the extra cash to get a MaxPass so you can reserve your spot from anywhere in the park. Also, avoid waiting in yet another line and always mobile order your food from the Disneyland app. By doing these things, you can maximize your time and ensure multiple rides on Space Mountain, a timely Disneyland corndog to prevent you from getting hangry and a few minutes to spare for when your Blue spouse begs you to go Disney Christmas ornament shopping with them. If you’re feeling particularly up for a challenge, compete with your family members to see who can find the most hidden Mickeys throughout the park — the winner gets sole custody of a Matterhorn macaroon. 

Blues

“You can design and create, and build the most wonderful place in the world. But it takes people to make the dream a reality.” -Walt Disney 

Blues, you are in good company at Disneyland, seeing as Walt Disney himself was a Blue. Since Blues are all about detail, I’d suggest doing your homework ahead of time and learning about some of the facts and hidden secrets about Disneyland so you can appreciate the experience that much more when you go. One of my personal favorite facts is that when It’s A Small World was created, water from each of the seven seas was poured into the water on the ride. Also, have you ever noticed the light that is left on in the window above the firehouse? It’s there to represent the spirit of Walt Disney being alive at Disneyland.  Trust me, there are a LOT of details at Disneyland just waiting for you to discover. And of course, would it be a true Disneyland experience for a Blue without spending it with those they love? Think about who your Disney dream team would be and start planning a trip with them now! 

Whites

“All the adversity I’ve had in my life, all my troubles and obstacles, have strengthened me… You may not realize it when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you.” -Walt Disney

When you think about crowded theme parks, a slow-paced vibe doesn’t usually come to mind, but the beauty of Disneyland is that there really is a pace for everyone. I’ve got my White personality dad to thank for that. While my dad loves the Haunted Mansion and the Indiana Jones ride as much as the next guy, he finds just as much joy in a loop around the park in the train or an air-conditioned viewing of Great Moments with Mr. Lincoln. He’s one to enjoy simply being in Disneyland. I remember being 10 years old and sitting for a long time with my dad watching a Beatles tribute band in the park. All was right with the world at that moment. I believe the White personalities can have just as much fun as the Yellows — and they may even enjoy some of the same activities — but they are also going to enjoy slowing down a bit and taking in the atmosphere of the Happiest Place on Earth. My advice to the Whites is to pick a favorite spot in the park to eat a favorite treat, smell the smells, hear the sounds and watch people experience some of the happiest times of their lives. 

Well, there you have it. Just a few tips for each of the Color Code personalities to make the most of a magical vacation. Are you a Disney fanatic? Let us know your personality type and your favorite part about Disneyland in the comments!   ____________________________________________

Megan Christensen is a Blue who has been writing her feelings for as long as she can remember. Megan graduated from BYU-Idaho in 2014 with a degree in communication. A lifelong fan of the Color Code, she’s thrilled to be the content editor of the blog and hopes to help as many people as possible become more self-aware. When she’s not writing, Megan can be found reading, doing yoga, and spending as much time as she can outdoors.